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| Topic Started: Dec 30 2005, 07:57 AM (6,810 Views) | |
| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 07:57 AM Post #1 |
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Good morning! This forum is for general discussion. Stop by, talk about whatever you like...but remember this is a "family friendly" board so keep it clean folks! I'll start by telling lpatrick (at her request!) about my SIL's "exorcism" experience. You have to know that this is my husband's sister and she is one strange dudette.  She is really REALLY religious (not that there is a THING wrong with that) and I think generally speaking her heart is in the right place--she tries to help people however she can, regardless of whether or not she knows them. Anyway...long story short--on Christmas she's telling my husband and me about this "exorcism" she attended recently of this woman she knows. My MIL kept rolling her eyes behind her and saying "she wasn't possessed just mentally ill!" I agree with my MIL. Of course my husband was just eating this all up--he loves to egg his sister on. It was actually kind of amusing. I'll save you all the gory details. All I can say is at least the conversation was "interesting" for once at Christmas!
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| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 08:20 AM Post #2 |
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I should say here that my SIL did not perform the "exorcism" but rather was "present" at the request of the person who requested the exorcism for herself. I'm only working 1/2 day today and looking forward to a nice long weekend. Anyone have any big plans? |
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| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 08:45 AM Post #3 |
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I can't believe you were in agreement with your MIL. I'm sure it was very interesting. Mr. lpatrick and I are staying in with the kiddies for the New Year's holiday. We may have a few other couples over or not. You never know around here. Jan 1 is our anniversary. |
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| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 09:28 AM Post #4 |
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Oh well Happy Anniversary early lpatrick! We aren't doing a thing--just staying at home and enjoying each other's company. We'll probably watch some movies in the theatre and I'm sure my husband will read. He's on a research kick about some information about China right now so he's pretty absorbed with that. As for my MIL and I being in agreement, she is a big suck up and is always saying stuff like "I'm SO glad you're a part of the family" or "I'm so glad you are married to Mr. JB!" What a load of bull
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| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 04:05 PM Post #5 |
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Wowzers on the exorcism. With the (small) amount of information that I have, I'd have to agree with the mentally ill assessment. If that is the case, it's unfortunate that people with mental illness so often go without the proper treatment! Ah, but no need to get on the soap box ... As for this weekend, I'm feeling rather conflicted. My sister invited me over, but I'm not feeling much like being around people. I haven't met a lot of friends since I've moved and I find New Year's Eve frustrating in that it's a contrived mandatory good time kind of night. I'll probably end up going to my sister's, being bored, and end up wishing that I'd just gotten more sleep! Maybe I'll try to be a little more optimistic ... |
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| Deleted User | Dec 30 2005, 05:45 PM Post #6 |
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Oh this person is being treated also for bi-polar disorder. My SIL really thinks she is suffering from from mental illness but since this person requested an exorcism their church felt they had to do it. Anyway...strange nonetheless. Going to watch "Shanghai Ghetto" tonight so I'll let you know how that is later. Have a good evening! |
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| Deleted User | Dec 31 2005, 06:50 AM Post #7 |
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Just dropping in here to wish everyone a happy 2006, and a good countdown to the new year tonight! Drats, JB, you gotta close The Mole and move here when I was The Mole! Is it personal? (Just kidding, of course) :shifty |
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| Deleted User | Dec 31 2005, 09:44 AM Post #8 |
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Haha...nothing personal GA
 Happy New Year to everyone too. I'll probably be here only briefly over the weekend. Have a good one! |
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| dfleminator | Dec 31 2005, 10:01 AM Post #9 |
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Yes, happy new year and all the best for 2006. I suppose Audio is preparing to ring in the new year right now, since 2006 starts in an hour! |
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| Deleted User | Dec 31 2005, 11:14 AM Post #10 |
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It's 2006 here officially already, but it's kinda pathetic how I'm spending it. But nonetheless, I smell the freshness of a new year right now, and I hope it's a good year for everyone!
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| Deleted User | Dec 31 2005, 04:19 PM Post #11 |
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GA your celebrations can't be more pathetic than ours--we're staying in and reading! How is that for old foagies?
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| dfleminator | Dec 31 2005, 08:42 PM Post #12 |
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That's what I'm doing too... staying home.. I may watch Dick Clark. I went to see Narnia earlier, it's a family tradition to go see a movie on New Year's Eve. It used to be fine... but other people seem to have picked up on that tradition as well. I waited in line for five minutes for popcorn, and finally gave up when the line hadn't moved at ALL... Screw 2005, bring on 2006
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| Deleted User | Dec 31 2005, 09:48 PM Post #13 |
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Our family used to always go to the movies on New Year's Eve too dflem. I can remember seeing some great films when I was a kid that are now "classics"--boy that makes me feel old! Hope everyone has a great 2006. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 1 2006, 11:38 AM Post #14 |
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I'm at home studying too, guys. And that's actually worse! But nonetheless, Happy 2006! I can smell the freshness in the air already! |
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| Deleted User | Jan 1 2006, 04:46 PM Post #15 |
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Hope everyone is having a great start to 2006. It is 82 degrees here and goergous in of all months Jan. The breeze is blowing and my kids' are enjoying "this harsh winter weather"...he he he. Hope you all have the best year and all the things you wish for come true for each of you. Heres to our ART family and a great new year ahead.
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 01:56 PM Post #16 |
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It's a good thing I'm off today--I feel crummy today. Not a great way to start off 2006. I have a bad feeling about this year...
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 02:36 PM Post #17 |
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It was nothing personal GA... I was just too good at the game and didn't give anyone else a chance. Plus admin didn't come up with my prize money for winning. Ok, I just got back from Lowe's (purchasing a new dryer since mine exploded... yes I do too much laundry). The sales guy was very nice. They have a policy of next day delivery, however I was told I won't get mine until Wednesday morning. When I went to the front to pay I asked a Zone Manager-DON, what was the deal and he told me if I had read the fine print on the sign I would have seen that next day delivery was only in emergency cases. First off he spoke to me like I was just a dumb woman who didn't know anything. I told him I would go back and read the fine print again and he said "whatever." Then I asked him what constituted an emergency, in his or the company's opinion. He just rolled his eyes. I stomped my pretty little boots back to the appliance section to read the fine print once again and NO WHERE did it mention "emergency." I have two small messy boys and an equally messy husband. Not having a dryer is a total emergency. I left the store and called Diane the manager who I've dealt with in the past. First I complimented the sales guy on doing a great job... then I started in on Don, (the pig is my new name for this man). I purchased two major appliances in '05 plus two storm doors and instillation from them. We will be doing some remodeling on this house to sell and will be building in the future. I let Diane know that if a relic like the pig was there norm for management I would be going to another home improvment store in the future. For any of the men out there that think women are ignorant about appliances, mechanics, warranties and policies, think again. Even though my husband is the bread winner and head of the house, I make most of the decisions on big home purchases. So get a clue retailers. Sorry for going off you guys. Thanks JB for having The Squawk Box for us!!! Hope you are feeling better JB. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 03:36 PM Post #18 |
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To me, having kids and no dryer is an emergency. What other laundry emergency could there be? Did Diane help you get your dryer sooner? Oh, and my mom was the one that handled the purchases, too. She stayed at home with us kids, but when my Dad brought his check home, it was handed over to her! I think that women making the majority of the financial decisions is far more common than retailers realize. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 03:49 PM Post #19 |
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"Pig" is a very nice term to use in this case... I hate that your a little woman you couldn't possibly have a brain in your head thing. You know who else does this I have noticed is doctor's like you don't know yourself or your child and they need to tell you how you feel.  Yeah I am curious did you get the dryer?
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 05:20 PM Post #20 |
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So are you getting the dryer tomorrow or did the woman manager you called do nothing for you either? I don't think it's necessarily that the zone mgr was a "man" but I just think people are getting ruder and ruder! It's like customer service no longer exists. I guess I'm a relic but I grew up in the "customer is always right" era and believe me, that no longer exists. People (retail or not) just work anymore to bring home a paycheck and many don't care about "repeat business." It's really sad and everyone loses. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 2 2006, 05:53 PM Post #21 |
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I'm sorry that I didn't mention that Diane, realizing that the customer IS right is sending my new dryer sometime tomorrow. She said it may not be first thing in the morning which is totally fine with me. I didn't really mind getting it on Wednesday, but when there's a huge sign that says "Next day delivery" that's what you should get. I don't think I was being unreasonable in my question to the pig. I really could have waited until Wednesday, but when you have a policy of next day then it should be honored or take those signs down. I think that these people forget that I help to pay them. I, as one person may not be able to effect their business immediately, but word of mouth is a powerful thing. Let me also add that if I get great service somewhere I will always call the manager/owner and let them know. I have waited on the phone for 20 minutes in the past to praise an employee becasue they deserved it. Not enough people do that. So if you guys receive excellent service somewhere from someone in particular, let their managers know. It really means alot. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 3 2006, 08:58 AM Post #22 |
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Well I hope you get the dryer as expected lpatrick. My New Year started off with a bang--so to speak. Mr. JB and I had the mother of all fights on New Year's Day. Not a good way to start the year off. I have several things in my past I have to deal with, consequently I'm not crazy about seeing my own family alot as they are part of what I have to deal with. I'm also not crazy about his either but for different reasons. My husband's family is so intellectual and are "upper class" and act every bit of it that they make me feel like the lowest of low sometimes. Not by anything they say but I never feel like I can open my mouth when I'm there with them for fear of saving something that will make me look stupid and reflect poorly on my husband. I'm not usually a meek person but you wouldn't guess that from seeing me at my in-law's. Not that I come from an awful family or anything but they are nothing like that! I've worked hard to achieve what I have. Worked my way though college, fought for jobs in a career I wanted, etc... and sometimes I think my husband has just had everything handed to him. Drives me nuts. OK, vent over... carry on. |
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| funnygirl | Jan 3 2006, 11:56 AM Post #23 |
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My New Year was okay. Not spectacular or overwhelming but okay. Me and the little one did some shopping since every one else was hung-over and the 16 year old is not talking to me (her loss :laugh). I am happy to announce all x-mas decor is down and put away already (pat's self on back). Now I have to pull down all the Valentines day lights and decor. I'm glad to hear everything worked out well with the dryer experience lPatrick. Better than a phone call praising somebody, put it in writing and include an extra copy for their personnel file. Make sure you send it to the store manager as well as a regional office (if you can find the address). Also, if a store/salesperson is recommended to you by a friend, family member or coworker, when you go to the store ask for that person and let it be known that they came highly recommended for their spectacular service. If you can, call first and request that salesperson to see if they will be there. If you can't, make sure to make a big deal about the awesome customer service. Also, keep in the back of your mind if the person you are dealing with looks to be older than high school/college age than chances are this is not what they aspired to be when they grew up and it's probably the best they can do and they have a family to support. THis goes a long way towards a self-esteem boost. As far you JB, you are intelligent and you express your opinions quite eloquently if I do say so myself. If they belittle you for expressing your opinion and your husband doesn't back you up, then you have my permission to boycott and further hubby family function until they can act like adults.  |
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| Deleted User | Jan 3 2006, 12:31 PM Post #24 |
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Thanks FG and I know no one can make you feel inferior without your permission, but... it's hard not to feel that way when you're surrounded by PhD's! Anyhoo... I am really not in the mood to be back at work today. I'd much rather be home with the covers over my head! So, did anyone make any New Year's resolutions? I've resolved to eat less junk food this year--which includes Hawaiian Punch. Yes, it's killing me
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| funnygirl | Jan 3 2006, 12:35 PM Post #25 |
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I'm going to quit smoking. Yeah, I'm really gonna do it this time. I started Welbutrin which means I will not be drinking alcohol thus losing my wonderful sense of humor and making me cranky! So just be on alert that I won't be my usual fabulous self in the next coming weeks.
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Those who can't laugh at themselves, leave the job to others. Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders & says... 'Oh, crap...she's awake!!’ | |
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